Becoming a Man -- According to Women and Boys.

Manhood, as opposed to being a boy in the 'hood.
 

I submit "urban youth" (the visual identity in the video):

...is a euphemism for teenage boys living in a matriarchal society-- and if so, who is defining "being a man": for them?  Their mothers, their female teachers, or other teenage boys?

I had a father.  I know what a man is, what a man does-- and it compares poorly with what mothers, female teachers, and teenage boys claim a man to be.